Paalam.

Di ko alam kung bakit bigla ko na lang naisip yung title nito. Ang mahalaga may title. Hehehe.
Naisip ko lang ulit.. ( mahilig talaga ako mag-isip ), Bakit kaya sa dalawang taong nagmamahalan kailangan may isang nagpapaalam? Hindi ko naman nilalahat, yung mga naghihiwalay lang okay?
Ibig kong sabihin, bakit nga ba minsan humahantong sa hiwalayan ang lahat?


Meron akong mga alam na dahilan at ang ilan sa mga ito ay:

Di pagkakaintindihan. Kadalasan sa mga magkasintahan kasi hindi magkaintindihan. Yung tipong nag-aaway na nga nagsusumbatan pa. Kung pwede nga lang silang dalawa magsuntukan eh ginawa na nila.
Mahirap kapag may karelasyon kang hindi marunong umintindi/umunawa. Napakahirap. Sa isang relasyon naman kasi dapat talagang buo ang tiwala niyo sa isa't - isa, Unless, hindi mo talaga siya mahal.

Pride.  Pride Chicken. Ito yung pritong manok diba? Sa sobrang hilig ng magkarelasyon kakakain ng pride chicken, inaapply na rin nila sa ugali nila. Sana kung ma-pride yung isa sana unawain na lang ng isa di ba?
Mahirap kasi yung nasa isang relasyon ka tapos nagpapataasan kayo ng pride. Walang mangyayari sa buhay niyo, sinasabi ko sa inyo.

Selos.  Natural lang sa tao yung magselos pero kung yung pagseselos mo eh sobra na, aba! kakaltukan na kita. Hindi maganda sa isang relasyon yung nagseselos. Love is all about TRUST. Paano magkakaroon ng magandang outcome yung relasyon ninyo kung hindi niyo lang rin naman kayang pagtiwalaan ang isa't isa. Kung yung isa eh lalabas lang para magtrabaho pero ang takbo ng isip mo magkikita sila ng babae niya kahit wala naman. Wew! Lupet mo pre! Ikaw na! Pero may mga nagsasabi na kung sino pa daw yung sobrang maghinala yung pa daw yung may ginagawa. Ewan ko, pero tingin ko hindi naman ganun yun. Nasa tao pa rin yon.
 Third party. Sa lahat ng party, ito naman yung nakakagigil. eto yung party na parang masarap manggulpi.
Bakit nga kasi may mga tao na may karelasyon na nga, mahilig pang sumali. Ang pagiging magkasintahan hanggang dalawa lang yan, isang babae at lalaki, lalaki at babae, pero minsan may mga bakla at lalake, tomboy at babae, sana meron ding bakla at tomboy. Hehe. Tandaan. ang pag-ibig ay sagradong bagay. Walang joke-joke. Minsan yung mga third party pa yung makakapal yung mukha. Lakas trip lang di ba?
Sila na yung nang- agaw sila pa yung malakas yung loob. Pero sana wag na nating gawin yun. Si Lord naman kasi may nilaan talaga siya para sa'yo, kaibigan, wag kang magmadali kasi kaya hindi pa niya binibigay sa'yo yun dahil alam niyang hindi ka pa handa. Hoookey???


Pagod. Simpleng salita. Pagod.. hindi naman mawawala sa isang relasyon yung trabaho, responsibilidad. At ikaw, dahil nagmamahal ka, o dahil mahal mo siya kailangang panindigan mo lahat ng salitang binitiwan mo sa kanya. Magkaroon ka ng isang salita. Kasi kapag puro ka na lang pangako at dumating na ang panahon na nagsasawa na siya sa mga pangako mong walang natupad kahit isa, bibitaw yan. Kahit gaano ka pa niya kamahal. Hindi lang sa pagtatrabaho napapagod ang tao. Sa pag-ibig din.

Mga anak ng Meant to be. Eto naman yung mga taong mahal ang isa't isa pero mukhang hindi sila ang nilaan para sa isa't isa. Gets niyo ba ko? hehe. Ewan ko huh, pero may mga ganito talagang magkasintahan. Nakakatanga lang 'no kasi alam nilang may nararamdaman sila para sa isa't isa pero hindi pwede. bakit? Hindi ko rin alam, Pwedeng mag kamag- anak sila (e.g, magpinsan, mag-ama , maglola)  yung mga ganung bagay. o kaya naman kaya hindi kayo pwede kasi ex mo yung bestfriend niya at may usapan sila na hindi kayo mag.gegerlpren ng iisang babae. ( A crazy little thing called headache) o kaya naman kaya hindi pwede kasi 40 years ang agwat ninyo? May ganun ba? o kaya naman anak siya ng tatay mo sa labas na hindi pinapasok. Basta marami pang dahilan. Pero kung tutuusin kung tadhana na ang naglalayo sa inyo, bakit hindi na lang kayo sumabay sa agos ng buhay? May mas mabuti at mas karapat-dapat pa na taong nakalaan para sa iyo.


Mga kaibigan, kakulangot at kasipon, lagi po nating tatandaan na ang pag-ibig ay hindi basta basta.
Hindi ito  yung bagay na napakadaling gawin para sa atin.



Magandang umaga po sa inyo :))
at dahil maganda ang umaga ngayon, magbabahagi ako ng isang napakapalpak na video cover na pinamagatang PAALAM. Pasensya na sa boses at itsura ko. Mahal ang suklay dito eh.

(Friendzoned)May mga babaeng binebestfriend, at may mga babaeng ginegirlfriend.

At dahil nauuso naman ngayon ang salitang "FRIENDZONE" ..

umpisahan natin, ano nga ba talaga 'tong friendzone na 'to??

- Noong una wala kong pakialam sa friendzone-friendzone na yan eh,
Pero habang tumatagal masyado na yata akong na-curious. Meron kasi akong kaibigan na ang hilig magbikas ng friendzone. Sa totoo lang nakakainis. haha. In a way na bakit kailangang banggitin lagi yung salita na yon, So yun nga parang medyo nahiwagaan ako sa "FRIENDZONE" term na ito at ito ang nakuha ko.


.. Base sa aking pagkakaunawa eto daw yung "FRIENDS ONLY". meaning kaibigan lang talaga ang turing sa iyo ng isang napakaespesyal na tao para sa'yo. Ito daw yung tipo na sobrang sweet niya sa'yo, Yung sobra sobrang concern ang ibinibigay sa'yo, sobrang pag-aalaga.
Karamihan sa mga na-friendzone eh nag.uumpisa daw 'yon sa pagkakaibigan.
Halimbawa, may isang babae, at ikaw lalaki ka, May boyfriend si babae at ikaw nga'nga.
Ngayon, naghiwalay, o nagkalabuan ang magkasintahan. At dahil kaibigan mo siya, Sa'yo siya tatakbo, iiyak, hihingi ng comfort, Sa'yo siya hahanap ng kasiyahan.
Ito yung mga tipo na nagsasabing "Okay lang yan nandito naman ako eh, di kita iiwan.", o kaya naman "You can cry on my shoulders naman eh." DUH as in wala kang own shoulder. haha :)

Ito daw yung feeling na binigyan mo ng meaning yung pagiging kaibigan sa'yo ng isang tao.
Pero yung isa naman eh ayaw sa'yo. (Bigti na, friend.) haha :)


Sa isang blog na nabasa ko sinasabi niya na mayroon daw limang puntos (5) para malaman kung ikaw ay nafriendzoned na, pero tingin ko hindi rin naman 'yon yun. haha :)


1. Nagkukwento siya sa'yo tungkol sa isang lalaki.
- Oo may mga ganung babae, pero hindi naman lahat. Katulad ko, makwento akong tao, kahit sino kinukwentuhan ko at kahit ano ikinukwento ko,marami namang nakakaalam ng mga ikinukwento ko tungkol sa mga lalaki na nagustuhan ko, pero hindi ibig sabihin non eh nananamantala na ako sa nararamdaman ng lalaki para sa akin.


2. Masyado siyang komportable.
- Eto naman yung mga tipong okay lang kahit saan kayo magpunta, kahit ano yung gawin niyo, basta magkasama kayong dalawa. basta, masaya at komportable ka sa mga ginagawa niya.


3. Di siya nagpapakita ng motibo na gusto ka niya.
- Hindi nagpapakita ng motibo o hindi ka lang talaga gusto? Haha ^____^
Hindi ko alam 'to dahil hindi ko pa nararanasan. Sa mga nakakarelate dyan, alam niyo na siguro 'to dahil di ko alam ipaliwanag ito. Haha ;)


4. Madami siyang lalaking kaibigan.
- Ito naman hindi ko rin alam kung paano papatunayan 'to pero ewan ko kung totoo nga ba 'to.
Ako kasi simula noong bata pa ko eh puro lalaki na naman ang mga kasama ko hanggang umabot ako ng ganitong edad, so ewan ko .

5. Hindi siya tumatakas para lang makausap ka.
- Syempre pagkakataon na nga iyon palalampasin mo pa ba?

(Lumabas ang writer para bumili ng kape.)
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Pasensya na bumili lang ako ng kape. Ge, Ituloy na natin..


At syempre kung merong mga "Hints", mayroon ding mga dahilan kung bakit na-Friendzone ka pre!
(galing pa din ito sa blogger na hindi ko alam ang pangalan, balita ko siya daw si wickedtitania. Nakakatakot.)

1. May mga babae na hindi nakikita kay friend na boy yung sinasabing potential para tawaging boyfriend.
- Kung baga sa exam, kulang pa sa review. Kung baga sa mga proposal, kailangan pang irevise.
May mga babae kasi na talagang may hinahanap lang sa isang lalaki, tapos pag nahanap na yun dun na sila magiging masaya. Ewan ko lang kung ano nga bang hinahanap ng mga babae na yan.

2. Nakikitaan ng babae yung lalaki ng pag-aalinlangan.
- sabi ni wickedtitania, Alinlangan in the sense na mahal ba niya talaga ko o isasama lang ako sa collection niya. Trip trip kung baga.
Eh kasi nga naman sa panahon ngayon mahirap maniwala sa kung kani-kaninong lalaki lamang.
mas maganda na 'yong sureball, yung sigurado, yung sakto.

3. Parang ang lalaki at babae ay kaparehas ng pole magnet.
 -  Pole magnet. Hindi ko alam kung ano yun eh. Pero tingin ko ito yung magnet na kapag pinagtapat mo eh hindi talaga magdidikit o magtatagpo. Yun ang sa tingin ko ha.


Meron pa nga akong nabasa sa ibang blog eh ang sabi: "mga babaeng paasa."
Hindi ko alam kung totoo nga ba o hindi. Kasi nga naman hindi ba't ....
Ah basta. Mahirap magpaliwanag.

Sabi nila mahirap daw ma-friendzone kasi unang una alam na alam mong kaibigan lang ang tingin niya sa'yo, Masakit daw kapag nagkukwento ka tungkol sa lalaki/babaeng mahal mo. Masakit kapag iniiyakan mo yung mahal mo at sa kanya ka pa mismo umiiyak. Sabi nila parang masarap daw gulpihin yung mga ganong lalaki. Hahaha ! natawa lang ako.

Eto daw yung quote na talagang saktong sakto sa word na FRIENDZONE.

Parang nakakatakot at parang ang sakit kapag narinig mo yan sa isang kaibigan na umasa sa wala diba? Tapos pagkatapos mong marinig yan, wala na friendship is over na "Strangers again" ang drama.


Kaya payo ko sa mga lapitin ng friendzone at sa mga nakikiuso sa friendzone at sa mga may balak mang friendzone:

UTANG NA LOOB NAMAN!!

NAKA ALL CAPS NA PARA DAMANG DAMA NIYO PA!

Biro lamang. Seryosong bagay 'to. Hehe.

Una, Hindi lahat ng nararamdaman natin pagmamahal. Oo, tumibok ang puso mo, ano? pagmamahal na ba yan? e malay mo nerbyos lang yan, o kaya heartburn diba?
Yung mga nararamdaman natin kasi pwedeng crush lang o infatuation lang. Syempre hintay hintay din pag may time, Kaibigan mo lang mahal mo na agad. At hindi porket nagpakita siya sa'yo ng kabutihan, ng concern, ng sweetness at kung anu-ano pa, hindi ibig sabihin nun mahal ka niya. May mga taong sadya lang talagang maaalahanin, mabait, sweet. At may mga tao rin nagtitrip lang. Malay mo trip lang niyang maging sweet sa'yo.
Ikalawa.  'Pag sinabing kaibigan, kaibigan lang. Kaya nga sinabing kaibigan eh F-R-I-E-N-D-S lang.

Kaya ka nafi-friendzone eh, masyado kang assuming.

May mga lalaking mapagsamantala, at ganun din sa mga babae (sorry sa term ko, wala kong maisip na ibang term eh.)

Yung mga babae kasi naghahanap lang ng comfort zone nila yan.. at dahil ikaw ang dakilang kaibigan na laging nagbibigay ng oras at atensyon sa kanya. Ikaw na! Ikaw na ang comfort Friendzone niya. 

Huwag kang magpapadala sa lahat ng sinasabi at pinaparamdam ng isang tao. Lalo na't hindi mo alam kung ano ka ba para sa kanya.

Ikatlo. Huwag maniwala sa ibinubulong ng puso. Hindi lahat ng sinasabi ng puso totoo, Heart is a deceiver. Tandaan niyo yan. pero kung mahal mo talaga siya, edi mahalin mo .. Nang walang hinihinging kapalit. A true love is an unconditional love. Hintayin mong magbigay din siya ng pagmamahal na hinahanap mo. Pero kung wala pa rin. HUWAG KANG TANGA. 

Sabi nga ni Kuya Roger sa film niya may line dun " Hayaan mo 'kong mahalin ka hanggang sa makalimutan kita." Huwag mong hayaang ikulong yung puso mo dun sa taong di ka kayang mahalin katulad ng pagmamahal na binibigay mo sa kanya. Okay??

Ikaapat. Move on - Move on din pre pag may time. Hindi lang siya ang makikilala mo sa mundong ito. Malay mo kayo pala ni Anne Curtis ang nakatadhana. O malay mo si Coco Martin pala yung nilaan ni Lord para sa'yo. Talo ka pa ba dun? Ang akin lang naman eh, Hwag masyadong magbigay ng pagmamahal. May tao pang mas magmamahal sayo. Mas magbibigay sa'yo ng panahon, oras at atensyon. Yung ituturing kang espesyal.

Sa ngayon di ko alam kung nakatulong ba ako o nakagulo. Gusto ko lang bawasan yung nakatambay dito sa katiting kong utak eh. haha :)
Pero nananalangin pa rin ako na sana nga nakatulong ako sa iba sa inyo. At salamat kung ganon ..

Enjoyin lang ang buhay, Maiksi lang yan para magmukmok at umiyak. Tanggapin mo na lang lahat ng nangyayari. Kasi minsan lang yan eh. :)

Bilang pamamaalam, ako'y mag.iiwan sa inyo ng isang short film na hindi nanggaling sa akin.

Pero may kinalaman, Malaki ang kinalaman sa ating paksa.

Panoorin niyo. 

Credits to the owner of this video.

Bakit nga kaya karamihan sa mga tao ngayon kapag umuulan eh ang drama?

 Nandito na naman ako dahil wala na namang magawa sa opisina.
Type ng Type ng type ng type.. Hehehe!

Napaisip lang ako bigla, kasi ngayong panahon ng tag-ulan, marami ang binabaha.
Marami ang walang tirahan na nababasa, maraming walang makain, Marami ang giniginaw.
Pero siguro ang pinakamarami kapag umuulan eh yung mga taong nag.iisip.


Bakit nga kaya mas may panahong mag.isip yung ibang tao kapag umuulan?
Kasi malamig?? kasi... gising ang utak nila? ewan ko rin..
kasi ako kapag umuulan napapaisip din ako. Haha!

Sabi nga ng mga bata eh, kaya daw umuulan kasi umiiyak ang langit.
Ibig sabihin malungkot daw. Pambihira buti pa yung langit wagas makaluha eh.


pero ano nga kaya yung mga iniisip ng tao kapag umuulan?

Pera? Kaibigan? Lovelife? pwede diba?


Isang beses nga pauwi ako noon galing trabaho, sobrang lakas ng ulan,
Yung tipong nakapayong at kapote ka na eh mababasa ka pa din.

May isang lalaki, nasa silungan lang siya. Nagpapatila ng ulan. Pero sobrang lungkot niya.
Ewan ko kung bakit, alangan naman kung tatanungin ko diba?

Inisip ko bakit kaya ang lungkot ng buhay niya? Nabasted kaya siya? o hindi siya nanalo sa lotto? O namatay kaya yung ipis nila sa bahay? I don't know.

Pero may mga pagkakataon kasi na iniisip ko sa tingin ko nababasa ko yung mga iniisip ng tao lalo na kapag nakatingin ako sa mga mata nila. Pero hindi ako sigurado, feeling ko lang yon.
Tinitignan ko yung mata niya, talagang napakalungkot, gusto ko sanang tanungin kung ano yung problema niya, kaya lang umalis na siya.

So yun, ako naman yung nag'isip. Haha :)
Di ba, Hindi lang kaming dalawa yung nag.iisip nong panahon na 'yon.. :))


eh ikaw, ano bang iniisip mo kapag umuulan??

I was thinking of a cypress tree and then...

I found one!
haha :)

The lone cypress :))

This is “The Lone Cypress Tree” which stands on a rock for more than 200 years (some web sites claim more than 250 years).  I learnt from a colleague Don that this tree which stands as a symbol of stability weathering time is the inspiration behind the Cypress Logo.

(Ganesh Raaja)

Sometimes people play hard to get to make sure that the other person's feelings are real.

Holding hands.. Holding hands.. Holding hands.

Holding hands may seem like an innocent gesture, but they show more than a simple interlocking of fingers. Your hands are one of the most essential parts of your body: you build with them, feed with them, hold with them, touch with them, fight with them; they are the tools of the human body. To take a hold of another’s hand is to break from living individually. It is to link yourself to another being, to momentarily entwine your life with another’s, to promise, for a moment, that you need not face the world alone. More simple, more aesthetically naive than other forms of affection, i.e kissing, hugging, sexing.., the act of holding hands is often trivialized in its true implications. 

Promises.

The strongest type of TRUST, when you can't count on someone,

when you need them the most through the tough and frustrating times.

A promise ensures that everything will be safe and alright.

Promises also keep a friendship and relationship powerful through the worst and corrupted times.

The feeling knowing that someone has your back and is always looking out for you enhances

your happiness and success.

Through the best and the worse, ever since we were kids, pinky promises will never broken and caused things to be perfect :)

I just don't understand them..

It's really hard pleasing them...

Really really hard..

But there comes a time.. 

I realized.. that someday..

Someday.. You will finally understand me..

And i can't wait for that :))

Why worrying is a Failure?

-Trevin Wax-

"Don't be a worry wart!" people say.. and those of us prone to anxiety promptly begin worrying about worrying too much.

I know the feeling. I worry too. I'm not the "lie awake at night" kind of person. But i notice that when i had a lot on my plate, I give an inordinate amount of attention to little details. Worry consumes me in a variety of ways, I lose patience quickly, I snap at my wife and kids.. or I lose my sense of empathy for others. Worry turns my focus to me.


For  a while, i thought worry was caused by my failure to SEEK FIRST THE KINGDOM.  If i would only fix my eyes on Jesus more, then i would stop worrying. I i would only think about the kingdom more, then anxiety wouldn't be an issue.

Certainly, those who are seeking first the kingdom above all things are not preoccupied with food and drink, and clothing ( as Jesus says in the sermon of the Mount) And yes, seeking the Kingdom first is a good action plan if we find ourselves worrying.

But seeking first the kingdom comes after we are being sought by the King. The root cause of worrying is not misplaced priorities. It's misplaced faith.
It's failure to grasp Gospel of God worthy of our trust.

So worry shows up whenever my view of God is diminished and my view of myself gets too big. I worry because my vision of God is skewed. I rest when my vision is fixed.

God's grace and mercy is sustaining us too. Everything we have comes from God's hand. Salvation belongs to the Lord. And the powerful God who saved us is the loving Father who sustains us.

When I reflect on the gospel of a priceless Savior giving his all for undeserving sinners like you and me, then I am assured that our value in the eyes of God does not shift with the economic tides. Our worth is not measured in what we do for God, but what God has done for us.

This is God the Father who sent his only Son to the cross that we deserved.

This is God the Son who willingly took on flesh, lived among us, and died in our place.

This is God the Spirit who prompts our hearts and brings us back into unending fellowship with our Maker.

It is the costly actions of God that give us our value.

In these difficult times, we - the people of God's kingdom - need to be reminded of our true citizenship and true identity. The uneasiness of worry surfaces in our hearts when we lose sight of the gospel of God's grace to the undeserving. Failure to grasp the gospel is what causes us to take our eyes off the kingdom and forget who we are in Christ.

United to Christ, we are part of a royal family. Our older Brother is the King of the world.

Hey, It's monday..

Friends, i am really sleepless, i can't sleep ! haha!

It's monday today.. nothing special :)
I just want to share my monday devotional notes :)

BE STILL, AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD

so in the Scripture of Acts chapter 4

God's message is :
Even if all of the unbelievers persecute you, be still.. The enemies.. were always there..
You know, enemies have their strength to keep us away to the Lord when we show weaknesses.
On the v.2 says SPEAK TRUTH.
Persecution makes you strong even if everyone is against you.
- Maybe this is the one i've been holding on for a long time..
Everyone persecutes me.. but still I'm holding on to my faith. Because as they said you will only know the truth if you follow the truth :)


V3 - They caught and they jailed.. but still, the power of their words still worked because everybody knows the truth but they don't believe in it.

V 7-8 - "We are doing this in the Lord's name." Because of the faith of the paralyzed man, He was healed.
Just like us, If we have faith, we have nothing to worry about..
We don't have to worry about everything, simply because we have..
Have you heard the song "TODAY IS THE DAY"?
It has lyrics like these..
"and i won't worry about tomorrow, i'm trusting on what You say, Today is the Day".
Just put your Trust to God.
Whatever is in our mind right now, whatever you burden is, i Know, it will be healed through faith.

--Faith and knowledge are different. Faith is limitless.

V11-12" Every words that are abandoned " This means that we should value God's word.. This is the key to build a strong foundation of the Lord with You.

To be with him is safetiness for He is the only begotten Son that the Lord gave to us.


GOD'S COMMAND :
V13 - Be strong and courageous. (Joshua 1:9 ) For the Lord you God will be with you wherever yo go.
That's why Peter and John stood still for their words.
V17: - They forced them to tell what they know but they said " I will give you the right to judge on this. What is righteous in the Lord's eyes.
TO FOLLOW YOU OR TO FOLLOW THE LORD?
The Lord have commanded us to follow Him. But before we get to finally reach Him, We have to walk through a lot of challenges, to know what His will is.
V30-31 RESPONSE OF GOD.
for thos who has strong faith in the Lord We have seen how the Lord answered our questions, Our Problems in life. Why?
Because They're filled with the Holy Spirit and they're bravely scattering the word of GOD.

V32. UNITE.
If we, believers have one goal in this life, we should have the unity, the power of one to overcome struggles in our life, in our church,
Christians must have one set of mind.

GOD'S PROMISE.
V12: Salvation is found in no one else, and there is no other name.
The Lord has promised that who ever believes in Him and accept Him must be saved.

V22 - Praise God for everything
The Lord is not slack concerning his promise (2Peter 3:9a)
V30 -  God's grace works
Because of the strength that comes from the Lord, they continued testifying/ speaking the truth. ( the ressurection, God promised grace in all of them.)
V34 - They were blessed
God blessed them everything they needed . He provided what is lack from these people.
God gave them all they need because they follow, they praise, they believe, and because, their salvation is true.

God's warning
V17 You should have speak nothing but the truth, The Lord said.
Let the truth prevail. Yes at first it will make us miserable, but believe me, it will set you free.

V26 - We have to get ready for everything that would happen if we truly believe in Christ, This say's that maybe we might encounter arguments, misunderstanding. Yes, because we're believers but not all that surrounds us will believe.
Maybe the Lord is not calling them yet, but i know, the time will come.. The Lord Him self will touch their hearts.. You know this is what i'm praying eversince. :)



PERSONAL APPLICATION.
Praise God for this wonderful Verse.

I learned how to...

Stand up for God

- SPEAK TRUTH

-STRONG FAITH

-STAND STILL

-SALVATION

-PRAISE

-BELIEVE

-GRACE OF GOD

Those words became my key to strengthen my faith to God.
The Lord promised me that he will never leave me as long as i will stand firm to Him.

The Lord is so great in my life because His grace is sufficient..

Even if i dont deserve His Love.. He still gives me what i need.

He is patient. 

I believe that the Lord has plans for me 

I know that someday, these rough road that i'm travelling on will be 

my path to success, Maybe he just wants me to Discover something for myself.

But i believe God will use this moment, or shall i say these things that i'm experiencing on to change my life.

-BELIEVE THAT MY GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE ME.

-HUMBLE DOWN MYSELF WHEN I FEEL PRIDE.

-LET ANGER FILL WITH LOVE

-FAITH STRENGTHENS ME.

-LISTEN TO GOD.

-IT IS NOT SELF CENTERED ATTITUDE.

PATIENCE WORTH

-EVERYTHING THAT SURROUNDS YOU IS GOD'S INSTRUMENT.

-GOD IS FAITHFUL

-HE IS PRINCE OF PEACE

Life is too short to enjoy and entertain sadness in your life..
Just face those challenges and tell your self, 

I'll be a better person someday :)








HAVE A GREAT DAY!
GODBLESS. 

Be a positive thinker (Be an optimist.)

Are you problematic? insecure? Do you feel neglected? are you a pessimist person?

A word from someone had helped me shaped my attitude towards life.
 I hope this will help you too..


"If your attitude is right, then your life is made right. If your heart is touched, your mind and thinking will change, and your life will change for the better accordingly. Look at the bright side of your life. Count your blessings, not your misfortunes. If you are burdened with the load and it seems so heavy, Give it to the one who really knows the inner chamber of your heart. God is concerned only in the honest heart. Think positive - You'll find things will get better. Forget about the few things we lack and cannot have. Stop being sorry for our limitations. Be happy.

A merry heart does good like medicine and is the refuge of our souls. A broken spirit dries the bone. Be the kind that does the right.


-- The pocketbook ( A little of Everything)
Canonigo, C.S,

It begins with me.

Everyone wants to change the world, but no one dares to start the change with himself. This has been probably an enormous and constant conflict since the old times. Indeed, this trouble has given a wrong perspective of how change should be done.


Change can be in small or big forms. Changing a facebook account password or taking part in advocacies in changing the government system to eradicate uprising societal issues concerning the upper class citizens and degrading the lower class citizens. Both are changes, but either ways, it is evident that in promoting change, actions must be taken and it should start from oneself.


A milk bottle cannot fulfill its purpose of feeding the baby if the inner part is unclean. It will be useless even if it's outer  part is very pleasant and well washed. Just like in life, the youth needs personal transformation first before doing certain roles in other developments in their nation. And in line with this, I have developed a simple progression formula. The 3 I's .


IDENTITY.
If you don't know how to use something, How would you know it's purpose?  You go to the inventor, same with life, how would you know your purpose? GO BACK TO YOUR CREATOR.  I truly believe that we, as a youth, need to secure our identities in God and considering what transformations must we  undergo first before identifying what changes in our nations should be done. Realizing the values and characters we must possess will help us secure ourselves in GOD and not in ourselves. This will cause us to have a well-built foundation that no earthquakes can destroy resulting us to have a dignity and stand straight in viewing issues in our society.


IMAGE.
Possessing the identity won't cause any positive change yet. Remember your science class?  Potential energy is different from kinetic energy. Potentials are useless if they won't be turned into actualizations. After having the identity, we will serve and possess the image. We will now be the examples or the stewards of the change we want to see.



INFLUENCE.
When people recognize you not because you are always in the guidance office but because you have a lot of good contributions in your family, school and society, influence will now be established. Influence is definitely the most influential word i've ever heard :) Kidding aside, influence is a humongous word when you have influence, You have a VIP pass to leadership. Leadership is influence but influence may not be leadership. Influence maybe good or bad, either encourage or discourage, You push others to success or pull them down to failure. But of course what i'm referring to what the youth must have is a good influence. Good bears good. Never in my entire life have I seen a mango tree that bears oranges. LOL.  If you will be a living description of good influence and  you will pass it from generation to generation, even with just one youth, it will be a huge effect, Who knows? That person maybe a future mayor of Caloocan? or Governor of Valenzuela? or the President of the Philippines?
The probability maybe less but it is possible.


The youth is the engine of change. We start change. The youth dictates the word that should be worn, what music should be played, What should be eaten during a snack time, even what brand of toothpaste should be used, Therefore, If we, the youth, are the part of the engine, we must be running a very big machine. requires a lot of effort, and good oil for a good run.


My dear readers, I just want to share that writing this article, makes me feel like the world looks at every word i write, Every thought that i think makes me think that i represent the youth that wants to see positive changes in this planet. Before I end, I want you to remember the 3I's , "Identity-Image_Influence". This can be a simple reminder of how we can be good engines. And last i want to encourage each and every readers with this verse found in Joshua 1:9 " ...be strong and courageous, do not be terrified, do not be discouraged for wherever you go  The Lord your God is with you..". We can never teach what we don't know. We can never give what we don't have. But we can offer Him do what He can do.


I am a 20- year old girl, Youth. One of the youth people who battles for personal and social transformations. Through this essay, i know i can make a positive change.I am proud that i have given the privilege to write not only an article but encouragement as well..


" Everyone wants to change the world, and we, as youth, will start it within ourselves."

Toolbox.

Ever wondered why i named it "TOOLBOX?"
hmm..
Someone told me life is about toolbox..
not the literal toolbox  , the deeper meaning of it..
He named it tool box because this is something that you can place where things aren't goin' to be use..
So if you're not yet using this thing, you can place it here..
Just like LOVE.

For us.. especially to those who are single or finding for their loved one.. or for waiting for someone to love them..
We doesn't have to think about lovelife yet..
We're still young , and free.. we can do what ever we want..
If God wants us to meet the one whom He intended to be with you..
He'll make a way for the both of you..
But if not.. just keep on enjoying your life single..
That's exactly what he said to me..
Love is everywhere, you can have it whenever you want..
But then.. Life has 5 seasons to follow,
(I didn't say you have to follow huh, i'm just making suggestions )

Our lives has 5 seasons..

Learning.
This is when you study, study, study, until you die :P LOL!
Seriously studying is the first season that we have, of course..
We have to learn everything, right? :)

Earning.
Earn while you learn..or maybe after you learn, you'll get a job, after you get a job,
You will pay for what you work for, and then you'll have money which is the key to earn..

Earning.
Again???? Yes.. the first earning is For your family :)
It is our responsibility to earn for them for what they've given to us..
For what they've sacrificed, or shall i say for everything..
That's it..


Earning.
Rudundancy. Isn't it:)
Yes.. 3 times earning..
first is for your family, second is for yourself, and the third one is for your future.

Last.
is marrying..
Marrying when everything's already fine.. when you have nothing to worry about.

So let's say, This is my life.. And i have a toolbox..
What should be the first thing to do to make my life good?
Of course i should learn first..
And that LOVE thing?? just put it in the toolbox.. pray for it.. "Lord, whatever you want to do to me, i'll just follow you."

And then after you learn, of course you'll earn..
Earn, Earn,Earn..
Then if there's no problem anymore? If God sees that you can handle every thing, He'll give you the one.. The one He'd reserved you..
Don't rush..  :) You may now get your heart inside the toolbox and open it to someone :)

Yikes!

Valentines day na po..

Hindi pa naman puno ang schedule ko, pero for those who want to fill it..
haha Okay lang:D


Just call or text me at this no. :
+639326383455


I'm not looking for a date, okay?
i'm looking for Gigs! 
Kung sino po yung mga magpaparequest ng harana for his/her loved one
Just contact me..Okay?
Thanks :))

Have a smile in your heart!! :)

PS.: FOR ACOUSTIC ONLY :)

Give Love this Heart's day :)

At Jesus Cornerstone Christian Ministries :)
See you there! 

Why do we pinky swear??:)

I first saw this 4 years ago..

When i watched "WINDSTRUCK MOVIE"

and now we're doing this stuff. LOL

Friends pinkies:
A group of girls bind their pinkies to make a pact not to be involved with the same guys.

Best friend pinkies:

A girl confesses to her bestfriend that she cheated on the exam because it's the only chance to got pass.
to keep the secret, They join their little fingers to make a promise.

Mom and Kid pinkies :
MOM:  I'll buy your favorite ice cream later if you sleep early tonight.

KID: Really? Ok mom let's make a pinky swear.

 Lovers Pinkies:

Boy: I won't sleep without saying good night and sweet dreams.

Girl: Pinky promise?
Boy: Pinky Promise.

**Boy falls asleep again while talking to her girlfriend on the phone.

So another fight for the next day? hehehe.

Seriously what it is ?

People specially girls and underage do pinky swear when making a promise.

They entwine their pinky fingers to bind a deal and a pact.

It goes that the person who broke up the deal would cut the pinky finger *-*

In the modern world, some still do pinky swearing Seriously or not, It signifies a binding agreement.

Promises come straight from the heart and are sworn to value.

So once and for all why do we join pinky fingers?

This video will show the answer.

Psych Truths, Maybe?

This is a lesson from a Psychology class before :)

When someone laughs too much even in stupid things.. That person is sad deep inside.


When someone sleeps a lot, That person is lonely.


When someone does not talk to much and if he talks, he talks fast.
That person keeps a secret.


When a person eats in a strange way, He or She is in tension.

When someone asks about you, although that person might be busy,
That someone loves you, more than you do..

Si Yvonne Hyun At ang nanay ko ;)

Do you know her>?
She's Yvonne Yung from the korean movie "TWO WIVES".

and guess what..

She looks like my mother!
hahaha!
actually she wants to post Yvonne's picture here.

And here she is..

Aren't they look a like? haha :D

Have a Smile ^_________^

You know why we have to smile?
Because there's a reason :)


SMILING MAKES US ATTRACTIVE:
 We're drawn to people who smile. There is an attraction factor. We want to know a smiling person and figure out what is so good. Flowns, Scowls and grimaces all push away people.But a smile draws them in.

IT CHANGES OUR MOOD :
 Next time you are feeling down, Try putting on a smile.  There's a good chance your mood will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body in helping you change your mood.

SMILE IS CONTAGIOUS:
 When someone is smiling, they lighten up the room, change the moods of others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with them. Smile a lot and people will draw to you.

SMILING RELIEVES STRESS.
Stress can really show us in our faces. Smiling helps us to prevent us from looking tired. worn down and overwhelmed.  When you are stressed take time to put a smile. The stress should be reduced and you'll be better to take action.

IT BOOSTS YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM.
Smiling helps to make your immune system better. When you smile, immune function improves possibly because you are more relaxed.

SMILING LOWERS YOUR BLOOD PRESSURE.
When you smile there is a measureable reduction in your blood pressure.  Give it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home. Sit a few minutes, take a reading then smile for a minute and take another reading while smiling. Do you see the difference?

SMILING RELEASES ENDORPHINS, NATURAL PAIN KILLERS AND SEROTONIN.
Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers and serotonin. Together these three will make us feel good. Smiling is a natural drug.

SMILING LIFTS  THE FACE AND MAKE YOU LOOK YOUNGER.
The muscles we use to smile lift the face, make a person appear younger. Don't go for a face lift. Just try smiling your way through the day -  You'll look younger and feel better.

SMILING MAKE YOU SEEM SUCCESSFUL.
Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted and more likely to be approached. Put a smile on a meetings and appointments, People will react to you differently.

SMILING HELPS YOU STAY POSITIVE.
Try this test. Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile. It's hard. When we smile, our body is sending the rest of us a message " LIFE IS GOOD!"  Stay away from depression, stress and worry by smiling.

Mga iba't- ibang klase ng tao na nagmo-move on.

Hi everyone, i'm hear again..

So, earlier i posted about how to move on, and now 
Let me share you this one.. It's kinda interesting  hehe..
Mga iba't- ibang klase ng taong nag.momove-on 
So here it goes..



*SLOWLY BUT SURELY.
-- Ito yung tipong kabagal -bagal mag.move on.at gusto muna niya makita talaga yung mga nangyayari at mga mali, (imbestigador kuno) Pero kahit sobrang bagal e pursigido naman talagang mag.move on.

*PAGONG.
 -- Eto yung talagang sobrang bagal at ayaw pang lumimot kaya napag.iiwanan na talaga.

*PAPALIT.PALIT.
 --Mga taong sasabihin na gustong magmove on pero kapag nakita mo siya, Ayy, wala nanaman, nandun nanaman ulit. Tapos itatanong sa sarili (Tounge - nah Kaya ko kayang kalimutan'to?) Tapos kapag wala ulit sasabihin na mag.momove on na talaga siya.

*PALUSOT.
 -- Eto naman yung taong sasabihin lahat ng gasgas na linya  at palusot na ginamit na ng ibang tao para lang masabing naka move- on na siya at para hindi na siya asarin ng mga kaibigan niya pero kapag mag.isa na siya.. ayun na nag.eemote na tungkol dun sa nakaraan nila.

*PURSIGIDONG.PURSIGIDO.
 --Mga taong gagawin lahat makalimutan lang ang taon nanakit sa kanyang damdamin at nag.iwan ng sugat sa kanilang puso. Kung kelangan lang talagang lumayo at mag.iba ng destinasyon o kahit makasakit ng tao, makalimot lang gagawin talaga nila.

* PURSIGIDONG PALYADO.
 -- Mga taong gustong mag.move-on pero hanggang salita lang talaga sila.

*UMAASA.
 -- Mga taong umaasa/humihingi ng tulong sa kaibigan/paligid niya para lang makalimutan ang dapat kalimutan sa tulong ng mga taong nasa paligid niya.

*MALAYANG BOTANTE.
--Mga tipong hindi na kailangan ng tulong ng iba basta makalimutan lang ang gusto nilang kalimutan, masaya na sila.
*BRUTAL.
 -- Mga dumedepende sa gamit sa bahay. - Yung kutsilyo, tinidor razor,bread knife, peeler, elesi, basag na salamin, shave, tapos ang gagawin lang e pageeksperimentuhan yung sarili, para mawala daw yung sakit na nadarama :)
*DEAD HUNGRY.
 -- Eto naman yung mahilig kumain ng kumain, Hala kain dito kain doon dahil sa pagkain nila dinadaan yung nararamdaman nila syempre kapag nanguya mo yung pagkain, merong hard, smooth, yung mga ganon? depende sa nararamdaman mo Minsan sasabayan pa ng pag.iyak at kahit na tumaba, kakain lang ng kakain Mailabas lang ang sakit na nararamdaman nila.

*MUSIKA.
 -- Mga taong nagmo-move on sa pamamagitan ng music. Pero minsan nakakapag.paalala din ng nararamdaman nila (kase nakakarelate)  minsan naman nakakapagpabuti rin ng nararamdaman nila.

*MAGULO.
 -- Mga taong di alam ang gagawin sa kanilang buhay. Kapag may nakitang mali at nasaktan ng todo, ayaw na talaga, pero pag nakakita ng pag.asa babalik nanaman sa pagiging tanga.

*WALANG PAKIALAM.

-- Eto yung mga wala talagang pakelam sa mga bagay na nangyayari. Kapag nasaktan, sige ayos lang, Nasaktan ako eh may magagawa pa ba ko? Eto yung mga taong hinahayaan na lang mawala yung sakit at hihintayin na maghilom ang sugat ng nakaraan.


                            

TRUST IN HIM :) orayt?

A mountain climber climbed a mountain at night.
He's near to the summit when rain fell down.
His feet slipped and he fell, but he managed to hold the rope. Then he cried.
"Lord, save me!"  Then a voice came. "Give up the rope."
But when he looked down, He can't see anything cause it's dark, so he still hold on to the rope.
When morning comes,rescuers found a frozen dead body, hanging on the rope with it's feet just two inches above the ground.

~ we belive in God, but do we trust Him?~

Be blessed!